Back to the lingam massage. While all naturist massages are open to both men and women, lingam massage is exclusively for men. Why is this? Quite simply because the lingam is a ‘rod of light’ (in old Sanskrit), the symbol of the creator god Shiva, the phallus, the penis… While a naturist massage takes into consideration all parts of the body, the lingam massage concentrates only on the sexual parts: the phallus, the perineum and the testicles. But be warned: this is not masturbation, and although ejaculation may occur as a result of the pleasure and relaxation provided, it is not an end in itself. The liberation so sought-after in Tantrism does not necessarily come with ejaculation.
How is lingam massage performed?
First of all, lingam massage cannot be performed in a massage parlour. Despite the highly spiritual nature of the practice, the sexual nature of the massage remains a fact, although not always understood in the West. Consequently, this type of massage is totally forbidden under French law. At least in massage parlors. Because it can, of course, be practised at home, in the intimate context of a loving relationship. And while massage itself is forbidden by law in massage parlors, it is not forbidden to teach it. Some salons therefore offer lingam and tantric massage lessons to couples who wish to learn how to reproduce the correct gestures in the privacy of their bedroom.
After all, massaging a man’s sexual attributes requires precise know-how. To begin with, it’s very important that the man starts the session perfectly relaxed. The setting, ambience and atmosphere of the room therefore play a very important role. Candles for intimate lighting, appropriate, relaxing music, chosen fragrances, mattresses and sheets that are pleasant to the touch, a cushion adapted to the neck and head of the person being massaged… Nothing should be left to chance and out should suggest the strong eroticism of the scene about to be played out. On his back, legs spread, the client lets the naked masseuse penetrate his intimacy. She now has access to the whole area and can begin to stimulate her partner’s sex, playing on her sensuality. The movements applied must be slow, and the practitioner for a day must above all remain attentive to her partner’s body, so as to increase the frequency in line with his or her breathing. At the moment of orgasm, she won’t forget to press the sacred point, the perineum, that little pea located between the anus and the testicles, so as to amplify the ecstasy, before leaving him to taste the joys of pleasure and total relaxation of the moment.
Lingam massage, a massage like no other
Lingam massage is indeed unlike any other massage, focusing exclusively on the power of the male sex. It’s difficult to compare it with other forms of naturist massage, even if the aim of each of these massages (Nuru massage, massage, body body massage, Californian massage, sensual massage, erotic massage, tantric massage…) is always the same. It is always a form of spiritual quest initiated exclusively by the body, with the ultimate aim of achieving deep relaxation of body and mind. A unique sensual experience unfortunately frowned upon by prevailing morality, yet so beneficial when offered in a luxurious, elegant, upscale setting that respects the dignity of both masseuse and massee. Pleasure is a direct gateway to enlightenment. Why deprive yourself?
