In a Tantric massage, the nude masseuse is the one who creates the energy, or at least allows the inactive vital energy of the male body to come to life. The aim is to enter the world of eroticism without any mental projections, focusing on the sensations of the body, solely through bodily well-being. But we’re talking about eroticism, about living fully in the moment, not about jouissance, orgasm or pornography. In a naturist massage, as a general rule, every part of the body is treated with the same neutrality. There’s no room for fantasies. This is even truer in tantric massage. Every part of the body must enjoy the same respect, no more and no less than any other part. It’s the release that counts. Letting go. If an erection should occur, rather than trying to chase away the discomfort caused by the event, simply concentrate on body sensations, on the points massaged at the moment, and the erection naturally disappears. Without frustration.
In an erotic massage parlour, various types of nude massage can complement the tantric principle that underpins everything. A four-hand massage can take the person being massaged into long, blissful sighs. A candle massage can introduce the client to the joys of a gentle heat amplitude on the skin. A massage encourages the client to experience the pleasure of the other’s well-being. A Nuru massage enhances the pleasure of touch for both masseuse and client, by letting all parts of the body slide against each other. A couple’s massage awakens mutual desire. A body-on-body massage, a Californian massage or a sensual massage adopts yet other techniques, other blends skilfully dosed by the expert hands of sublime practitioners.
Meditation through the body
Far from being a sexual deviance, or even a hyper-sexualized contact between two bodies, tantric massage allows you to become aware of every part of your body with the same neutrality, with the same interest, whether it’s a calf, a shoulder, a buttock or a breast. In short, it’s more a sensual meditation session on the body than anything else. To reach this Eden, it’s all about trusting your partner and relaxing deeply, opening up and awakening every chakra. And to facilitate this, erotic massage centers make it a point of honor to take care of the ambience, the atmosphere that reigns within the salon as well as within each cell. Sober, elegant decor is the key to relaxation. A futon, a few candles for lighting, a playlist of soft music and a few well-scented fragrances. As far as technique is concerned, and apart from a focus on the massee’s chakras, it’s all about listening to the body, its reactions and the feelings expressed.
Tantric massage is about sensuality, not sexuality! It allows the body to vibrate, taking the spirit with it, but without the negative force of the mind and its fantasized projections. It invites you to live in the moment, to concentrate on the sensations and emotions that emerge from light pressure and caresses, without worrying about the environment or nudity. It facilitates the circulation of energies throughout the body. It reaches the spirit directly through the body. It offers a form of bliss that relegates sexual desires to the background, without frustration. The only problem, especially when it’s performed by a sublime nude masseuse who’s a master in the art of massage, is that you’d like it to never end..
